Boundary #29: “Just Kidding” Is Not an Excuse To Disrespect Me.
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Boundary #29: “Just Kidding” Is Not an Excuse To Disrespect Me.
People sometimes hide barbs behind “it’s just a joke” or claim hurtful remarks are “just being honest.” I see through that. If words are hurtful or insulting, I hold the speaker accountable regardless of their flimsy excuse. This boundary shields me from covert hostility – respect is required in how people speak to me, humor or not.