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Boundary #42. I Don’t Allow Anyone To Use My Past Against Me.
We all have past mistakes or vulnerabilities, but I won’t permit someone to weaponize mine to shame or control me. If a friend, family member, or partner constantly dredges up my old failures to win arguments or put me down, I call it out and set a hard line. My past is mine to learn from, not ammo for someone else – I insist on being treated for who I am now, not who I used to be.