✍️ Editor’s Note:
Zalman is my therapist—and my secret weapon.
When I was unraveling, he didn’t just offer support. He helped me see the patterns running my life and gave me language sharp enough to cut through them.
His insights show up everywhere in Permission to Be Powerful—because they changed me. Now I want them to reach you.
This is your introduction to Zalman, LCSW. You’ll be hearing more from him.
—Anton
Dear Permission to Be Powerful Reader,
Recently, someone in my Facebook group Relationship Masters asked me:
“I would love to attract my true husband soulmate. How do I do that?”
What a powerful question.
And the answer?
It’s simpler—and more surprising—than you think.
The Soulmate Attraction Process
If you want to attract a soulmate, start by becoming the kind of person your soulmate would instantly recognize, feel safe with, and be drawn to.
Here’s how:
Close your eyes.
Imagine your ideal partner.
How would they look at you?
How would they talk to you?
How would they treat you?
How would they think and feel about you?
Now here’s the secret:
Start treating yourself that way.
Give yourself the love, patience, and presence you want to receive.
Be the soulmate to your own Inner Child first.
This isn’t just visualization.
It’s spiritual pattern interruption.
It’s reconditioning the emotional magnet of who you attract and how you feel when they show up.
Why This Works
Because the people we attract into our lives tend to reflect the way we treat ourselves.
If you’re neglecting, criticizing, or doubting yourself—even silently—you’re going to draw in people who amplify that.
Not because you’re cursed.
But because you haven’t yet healed the original relationship:
the one between your adult self and your inner child.
Break the Pattern. Change the Frequency.
Many of us learned to abandon ourselves in childhood.
So as adults, we:
Attract partners who don’t fully see us
Repeat dynamics where we over-give and under-receive
Confuse anxiety for chemistry
Stay in relationships that re-open old wounds
But once you start showing up for yourself, something wild happens:
You stop needing to learn the same hard lesson over and over.
The lesson completes.
The pattern dissolves.
And your energy shifts so radically that new types of people—safer people, better matches, real soulmates—start showing up in your life.
So Here’s Your Invitation:
For the next 30 days, start small.
💌 Write love notes to your Inner Child.
💌 Speak gently to yourself when you mess up.
💌 Take yourself out like you would your soulmate.
💌 Notice every moment you abandon yourself—and shift the script.
And if you want daily support for that process…
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Because your soulmate isn’t someone you chase.
They’re someone who recognizes you the moment you recognize yourself.
Let’s get you ready for that.
— Zalman, LCSW
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