Permission to be Powerful

Permission to be Powerful

The Day I Stopped Being Invisible

How I Stopped Begging for Attention and Started Commanding It

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Tony V.
Feb 20, 2025
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Being The Chauffeur was my default setting.

I felt inadequate, drowning in overwhelming shame, convinced something was fundamentally wrong with me.

I saw myself as the sidekick in everyone else’s story, drawn to subservient roles, a slave to my insatiable need for approval.

I pretended not to care about others’ opinions, but fear consumed me.

I kept myself …

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